Know Yourself
Know yourself
Do you want to know who you are? In this article, you will learn about yourself. Who are you? Also, you will learn about human behaviour. People want to know themself.
Human behaviour has categories 1. Secure 2. Anxious 3. Avoidance
1. Secure
Secure people love themself. They are very carefree, kind, compassionate, artistic, and outgoing, and they love travelling, courageous, kind, and empathic; they have all types of emotions. They are very mature,
Secure people love secure people; they will not attract any toxic person; toxic people hate this kind of person.
2. Anxious
Anxious people are introverted, very nice, and very empathic they can feel human emotions very deep. They have 95% of empathy.
Anxious people always attract and avoid people like narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths people.
3. Avoidance
These kinds of people avoid certain things and situations. They are very toxic. In this attachment, you can find so many disorders like
BPD Borderline Personality Disorder
BPD is very anxious for people; if you have an anxious attachment, you can have BPD. BPD is introverted, artistic, has fewer friends, and is easily angry; there are a lot of artists who work in film, television and YouTube who have BPD.
Narcissist Personality Disorder
In the psychology world, there are 9 criteria. If you have any 5 of them, you can have NPD.
1. Grandious
2. They are fantasies of ideal love, success power. They have an imagination that they are great and powerful. In reality, they are not.
3. Think they are special. In reality, they are not. They have a weird kind of thinking going on in their head that there is nothing like them. They think they are god. In reality, they are demons who are human.
4. Alwayes nead admiration. The administration is great, but too much admiration is not great.
5. They have a sense of entitlement. They think they are special and should be treated like a god. They are unique.
6. They have exploited behaviour. They are easily angry they can be angry at very small things. They use other people's emotions. They treat humans like a chess game. It's a game for them. They love any emotion that they can bring to people like anger, sadness, happy. They think they are the ones that control your every emotion.
7. They have lack of empathy. There are is 2 types of empathy: behavioural empathy and cognitive empathy.
If people want to make connections with other people, they need behaviour empathy. This kind of people can feel what other people feel. When you watch a movie and someone dies, you can feel the character's emotion; that is why so many people cry.
Cognitive empathy, on the other hand, if someone cries, they would know because of tears, but they do not understand the reason behind those tears. Imagine if someone dies and cries because of the loss but cognitive empathy does not understand because they do not have a feeling. Narcissists have cognitive empathy.
8. They are the envy of others. They are very selfish people. They always think about themselves
9. Arrogant behaviour. They are angry about small things. Even if you disagree with something, they will be angry at you. They always show anger with their loved ones, their family, their wife or husband, but in groups like the workplace or with friends, they are very nice people. They wear a mask.
Relationship
Anxious narcissists and sociopaths attract narcissistic people. Any anxious person will attract narcissists. They will feel like they are meeting soulmates. Anxious are like hunters. They are looking for anxious people. They will never fall in love with secure people, but they can use them but never marry them. Anxious is drawn to a narcissist.
When they are anxious, people will feel narcissistic. They are charming, confident, and extroverted, and, of course, anxiety is different from narcissism. Anxious wants narcissist quality, and narcissists want anxious quality, that's why they are soulmates.
Sociopath
Every sociopath has a narcissist quality, but not every narcissist is a sociopath. They are more dangerous than narcissistic people. There are a lot of prisoners who are narcissists and sociopaths. They do not care about others, they just care for themself.
Conclusion
People have a lot of mental issues. So many issues come because of their parents. People can manage if they have any mental disorders by going to therapy. It takes so many years.
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