Improve Parenting Skills

How to be parents

Parenting is a very crucial part of kids. You are a teacher of your kids. People say whatever you do kids will learn from that. Make sure you create a good environment for the kids.



Table of content

● If children get addicted to drugs

● If children normal  

● The power of relationship





If children get addicted to drugs



What will you do if your kids get addicted to drugs and go to jail? 

You don't have to rush go to the police and bail them out quickly. It's not a good option. The better option is you have to make sure your kids learn the lesson from this incident. You don't have to rush and bail him out give your child some time. Make sure your child learns the lesson from that incident. You have to be strict. Make sure your child knows the responsibility and consequence of that action. 


If children normal



Parents have to be kind to them and love them. Parents can teach them so many lessons through stories. Parents should be good in front of kids. Parents should be kind to each other so that kids can learn from them. 


Having children is exciting. But it comes with responsibility. Parents need to dedicate 20 years of their lives. It comes with a lot of sacrifices you can't do so many things because of the child. Being parents is expensive. Children should be guided in a positive direction, and parents should give them.


It's fun having kids. You take responsibility for those kids. Having kids is a luxury, so you need to learn to take care of the child. 



The power of relationship



There are two kinds of power 

1. Authority power 

2. Relation power

Authority power has no love in it. Relationship power has a great effect on children. You love the child and the child will love you. They are gonna do 98% of the time but 2 % of the time they will screw up and learn from it.


Don't use authority half of the time and relationship power half of the time. Be kind to your child. When the relationship is dead, they will stop listening to you. Once you use too much authority, you will kill the relationship; they are no longer going to do anything for you except for a reward and punishment. Authority power is like a cop criminal situation they do not love and are kind to each other. Your relationship with a child would be like I like you and You like me. If I ask you to do something you will do it. I show you praise and kindness and love as a reward for a criminal relationship you do not want. That is why I am against authority relationships. Children have peer pressure, other influences and also outside influences they can do a lot of things because of peer pressure. 

Both parents and children have a problem, and both need to solve that problem. If you do not have a relationship with the child, they will not care like coming home early. They're not enough caring concern and relationship strength going on. 

Everything you do for their care and concern. Give them a hug, smile, pat on the back, reward and repeat. They will do it most of the time when they don't one out of twenty times give them consequence. Parents can also say, "This time I let you out. If you promise me never to do this again, I am going to trust you" Let them know I feel bad about it. If they correct it reward them. If children say, you are controlling me. Don't ever let them assert that that is what going on. Of course, it isn't. Parents should let them know they are caring and concerned about them. Parents are here to help them, not to hurt them. If parents yield you can apologise to your child "I am sorry I yelled at you "









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